Caregiver Sibling Update
For the adult child who is the primary caregiver for an aging parent and dreads writing the weekly update to siblings who live elsewhere. You are the one who took Mom to the specialist Tuesday, called the pharmacy about the med change Wednesday, sat with Dad through a bad sleep night Friday, and now on Sunday you are staring at a blank group text or a blank email draft with 200 half-remembered facts and one very tired resentment. Paste your rough dictated notes plus the sibling roster and get back a calm, factual six-section weekly update: this-week-at-a-glance, health and function, meds and medical care, daily life and safety, what we are watching next week, and requests and decisions. Every bullet anchored line by line to something you actually noted, with a used_notes and unused_notes receipt per section so you can see what was kept and what was dropped. Never invents medical facts, never interprets symptoms, never names a diagnosis, never invents siblings or asks. Strips the resentment leakage every caregiver-forum flags ('as usual I was the one who had to', 'nobody bothered to call', 'again I did it alone') into neutral factual phrasing, and boundaries the diary spiral ('I am so tired, I cannot do this') into one clear time-bound ask under Requests and decisions. The bluntness dial lets you set the register from soft (family-facing gentle, still names the safety events) through direct (neutral factual) to very-direct (names decline starkly, still no diagnostic labels). Deep tier adds full per-sibling calibration keyed to what you pasted about each sibling (lives-out-of-state, has-kids, works-nights, money-one, medical-one), full cross-section anti-repetition so no two bullets in the update share an opener stem or a closing clause, and full ai-tells strip of the caregiver-update cliche lexicon ('just wanted to update everyone', 'thanks in advance for your understanding', 'hanging in there', 'I am doing my best', 'let me know if you can help').