Roommate Boundary Message
You share a lease with a roommate who keeps eating your food, whose partner has effectively moved in five nights a week, who never does the dishes, or who is treating the shared unit like a solo one. Paste the category, what actually happened, how many times it has repeated, your lease dynamic, how bad it has gotten, and the medium you want to use, and get back a four-part boundary pack: a firm-but-non-hostile OPENER calibrated to text vs. in-person vs. house-meeting (NVC four-part frame with four condescension phrases stripped), ONE CONCRETE ASK phrased as a specific behavior with a bounded time or count, a DE-ESCALATION COMEBACK LINE for when the roommate gets defensive, and (only when the lease dynamic is you-are-lease-holder or you-are-subletter AND severity is on the higher half) an OPTIONAL PAPER-TRAIL EMAIL that reference-lines the conversation for the record. A coach-not-advocate safety router runs FIRST and refuses to draft anything when the inputs describe intimate-partner or roommate-partner violence (routes to National DV Hotline 1-800-799-7233), hidden cameras or recording devices in shared space (routes to non-emergency police), sexual harassment or sexual coercion (routes to RAINN 1-800-656-4673), physical intimidation or property damage (routes to non-emergency police plus Legal Aid), or landlord retaliation after a complaint (routes to Legal Aid via LawHelp.org). Every non-refuse output appends a same-day-help footer pointing at community mediation (nafcm.org / 211) so the user has a real path when the conversation goes sideways.
